Mengapa wanita mudah menangis?

SEORANG ANAK LAKI-LAKI 

KECIL BERTANYA KEPADA IBUNYA 

"MENGAPA IBU MENANGIS?" 

"KERANA AKU SEORANG WANITA", 

KATA SANG IBU KEPADANYA. 

"AKU TIDAK MENGERTI", 

KATA ANAK ITU. 

IBUNYA HANYA MEMELUKNYA DAN BERKATA,

 "DAN KAU TAK AKAN PERNAH MENGERTI" 

KEMUDIAN ANAK LAKI-LAKI ITU BERTANYA KEPADA AYAHNYA, 

"MENGAPA IBU SUKA MENANGIS TANPA ALASAN?"

"SEMUA WANITA MENANGIS TANPA ALASAN",

 HANYA ITU YANG DAPAT DIKATAKAN OLEH AYAHNYA. 

ANAK LAKI-LAKI KECIL ITU 

PUN LALU TUMBUH MENJADI SEORANG 

LAKI-LAKI DEWASA, TETAP INGIN TAHU 

MENGAPA WANITA MENANGIS.

AKHIRNYA, DIA MENGHUBUNGI TUHAN

DAN BERTANYA:

"TUHAN, MENGAPA PEREMPUAN

 BEGITU MUDAH MENANGIS?" 

Allah berfirman:

"Ketika Aku menciptakan 

seorang wanita, ia diharuskan untuk 

menjadi seorang yang istimewa. Aku 

membuat bahunya cukup kuat untuk 

menopang dunia; namun, harus cukup 

lembut untuk memberikan kenyamanan " 

"Aku memberikannya 

kekuatan dari dalam untuk mampu 

melahirkan anak dan menerima penolakan 

yang seringkali datang dari anak-anaknya " 

"Aku memberinya 

kekerasan untuk membuatnya tetap tegar 

ketika orang-orang lain menyerah, dan 

mengasuh keluarganya dengan penderitaan 

dan kelelahan tanpa mengeluh " 

"Aku memberinya kepekaan 

untuk mencintai anak-anaknya dalam 

setiap keadaan, bahkan ketika anaknya 

bersikap sangat menyakiti hatinya " 

"Aku memberinya kekuatan 

untuk mendukung suaminya dalam 

kegagalannya dan melengkapi dengan 

tulang rusuk suaminya untuk melindungi hatinya " 

"Aku memberinya 

kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui bahwa 

seorang suami yang baik takkan pernah 

menyakiti isterinya, tetapi kadang 

menguji kekuatannya dan ketetapan 

hatinya untuk berada disisi suaminya tanpa ragu" 

"Dan akhirnya, Aku 

memberinya air mata untuk dititiskan dan 

ini adalah khusus miliknya untuk 

digunakan bilapun ia perlukan." 

"Kau tahu;kecantikan 

seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian yang 

dikenakannya, susuk yang ia tampilkan,

 atau bagaimana ia menyisir rambutnya." 

"Kecantikan seorang 

wanita harus dilihat dari matanya, 

kerana itulah pintu hatinya.. Tempat 

DIMANA CINTA ITU ADA."

Moody

Hmmmm..

I'm reli not in my mood today..

moody..moody..

why? because of someone..

the important person for me..

izzit i'm done wrong to him?

he said 'no'..

izzit i've made him unhappy?

but he is laughing while chatting..

i say 'sorry' to him..

he said 'no need to sorry'..

even he didn't mention out that he feel unhappy..

but i can feel it..

he try to pretend that he is happy..

but i still crying..

hurt and i reli feel guilty..

arhhhh.....

this feeling is kiling me..

how??

hurhhh...

i better continue my sleep..

nitezz..

My days ♥

Hmm..bored bored bored !!!
Everyday do the same things.
Wake up at 7am, wake him too.
Talk a little bit morning words.
After hang up then rush.
Take my Mr Bean towel.
Get into the bathroom.
Shower and Do this Do that.
Done! (in the bathroom)
Choose clothes. (this is the most difficult =.=)
Blow-dry my hair.
Take my handbag-handphone.(important)
Switch off all electrical.
Go downstair and wear heels.
Take my car's and house's key.
Get into the car-traffic jam.(hates)
Arrived at my work place.
Go for breakfast with my colleagues.
8.30am in the bank do own department.
9.15am start banking hour.
Count money everyday.
Sometimes look at the money also wanna vomit.LOL
But if my own sure I love it.XD
Work work work !!!
11am-12pm rest.
Go to buy for eat.
Back to the bank, eat while text-ing.
When time's up, back to work.
Damn lazy.(time pass so fast)
Work work work !!!
4.15pm banking hour is ended.
Do our balancing and update department.
5.30pm only can step out from the bank.
Continue our tea break at restaurant AULIAH.
Sitting-Chatting-Laughing-Waiting for traffic not crowded.
Around 6.30-7pm, everyone go home.
Arrived home-shower-online-resting.While
Talk-ing wif my fon.(night words) =P
Before I go on to start my sweet dreams.
Is important for me to PRAY.
PRAY= I'm chatting wif GOD to be thankful for my great day.
Lastly, I excited to start my sweet dreams.(happy)
Yes!!! This is what i'll do and my schedule every monday to friday.
Sat & sun- freestyle time. Can do whatever I loike. (:
Thanks be to GOD  ♥

Lazy me =P

now is around 1 am

Yeayy..It's monday

can't sleep?

x juga..

actually if cakap pasal sleep

aku ni yang no.1.. fav kan..haha

actually again, aku risau pasal assignment ni

hurh~~ mau berabis suda ni kasi siap

date hantar x lama lagi, OMG

help me.. penat da otak aku ni berfikir

fikir pasal benda lain..haha

nehh~~ sapa suruh malas2 mau buat..

skrg baru rasa..last2 minute..haha

Belly Gut.. :P

Hmmmm....

apa tidak, keep FB-ing, Blog-ing, Twitter-ing, YM-ing, Sms-ing, Call-ing, Talk-ing

and specially, i cannot skip my fav korean drama

ni la faktor2 yang menyebabkn ramai dkalangan pelajar tidak dpt menumpukn perhatian dalam pembelajaran. ^^"

siapakah yang harus dipersalahkan dlm masalah ini??

hahaha.. anyway, walau cm mana pun..

aku mau lawan ni malas yg buat aku x siap assignment

JiaYou mey.. I know u can do it

Gambateh babe (:

Kla, it's time to sleep now

save energy for assignment and my jobs

i need to wake up early and wake my dear up =P

Hope a wonderful monday on the 1st weekday ♥

Love and to be loved

When i first saw you

I was afraid to meet you

When I first met you

I was afraid to hold you

When I held you

I was afraid to kiss you

When I first kissed you

I was afraid to love you

Now that I love you

I’m really afraid to lose you

I believe everyone should have the feeling to love and want to be loved.

When you meet with your beloved one that both of you are really love each other. It's good :)

So in the beginning, your feeling are very bloom.

Sometimes you are not eating but you'll feel full enough. (Is it power of love?)

Every hour, minute and second, you will smile like there are flowers garden in your heart.

How wonderful that feeling.. Wow.. I can imagine ^^
You would treat him/her as a place to complain or share your problem either happy or sad.
Automatically, the person will become your very close friend.
You will feel like you want to be with him/her every second just only to stay beside them.

It seem like you wanna stop the time when that was the sweetest in your life.

But some of them are very very care of their partner. 

Until they misuse the ways to maintain their relationship.
Sometimes, it does not mean that he/she did not care or do not love you when they spent less time on your side.
He/she may wanted to hang out with friends.
Do some activities or joining friends to have fun.
I know. some of them are afraid if their partner are doing bad things outside.
Since you already chosen to love and care for him/her, why still have doubts that will disturb your mind and ruin your relationship.
Properly, you must choose to believe.
If one day, he/she absolutely has lie in you, they will regret it for sure.
And on the time, you will realize that this person is not worth for you to cry, love and care anymore.
You can keep it as a beautiful memories and be thankful.
Because of it, it's help to encourage you to become more courageous, independent and more mature.
So, learn to appreciate everything you have now and do not expect a very high demand.
Do not care whether it is small or medium, as long as it is perfect and comfortable.
It is enough. Because everything is given by God. ♥

A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself.
To laugh with me - but never at me
To cry with me - but never because of me
To love life. To love himself. To love being loved.
Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.

Our Songs ^^

Bon Jovi - Thank You For Loving Me

It’s hard for me to say the things

I want to say sometimes
There’s no one here but you and me
And that broken old street light
Lock the doors
We’ll leave the world outside
All I’ve got to give to you
Are these five words when I

Thank you for loving me
For being my eyes
When I couldn’t see
For parting my lips
When I couldn’t breathe
Thank you for loving me
Thank you for loving me

I never knew I had a dream
Until that dream was you
When I look into your eyes
The sky’s a different blue
Cross my heart
I wear no disguise
If I tried, you’d make believe
That you believed my lies

Thank you for loving me
For being my eyes
When I couldn’t see
For parting my lips
When I couldn’t breathe
Thank you for loving me

You pick me up when I fall down
You ring the bell before they count me out
If I was drowning you would part the sea
And risk your own life to rescue me

Lock the doors
We’ll leave the world outside
All I’ve got to give to you
Are these five words when I

Thank you for loving me
For being my eyes
When I couldn’t see
For parting my lips
When I couldn’t breathe
Thank you for loving me
Thank you for loving me

When I couldn’t fly
Oh, you gave me wings
You parted my lips
When I couldn’t breathe
Thank you for loving me
Thank you for loving me
Thank you for loving me,
For loving me

Ungu - Cinta Dalam Hati

mungkin ini memang jalan takdirku

mengagumi tanpa di cintai
tak mengapa bagiku asal kau pun bahagia
dalam hidupmu, dalam hidupmu

telah lama kupendam perasaan itu
menunggu hatimu menyambut diriku
tak mengapa bagiku cintaimu pun adalah
bahagia untukku, bahagia untukku

ku ingin kau tahu diriku di sini menanti dirimu
meski ku tunggu hingga ujung waktuku
dan berharap rasa ini kan abadi untuk selamanya
dan ijinkan aku memeluk dirimu kali ini saja
tuk ucapkan selamat tinggal untuk selamanya
dan biarkan rasa ini bahagia untuk sekejab saja

Cinta Antara Kita-Duta & Baizura Kahar

Duta:
Sejak dari dulu
ku menyintaimu
kau tahu begitu namun kau berpura
ku masih teringat kau peluk diriku
yang telah membuat ku menyintai mu

Sudah berapa lama
diriku ini
tak bertemu mu
mungkin ku harap jua
kau merindu ku
sebagaimanaku rinduimu

Duta:
Cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia
ku menyinta dirimu
ku hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu syg….

Baizura Kahar:
Setelah kau pergi jauh dari sisi
tiada ku cinta selain dirimu
ku ingin bersama dgnmu selamanya
walaupun sehingga ke akhir nyawa
mungkin kau tak mengerti
maksud ku dulu pada dirimu
kiniku kan menyinta dirimu itu sehingga ke akhir waktu

Baizura Kahar:
cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia
ku menyintai dirimu
ku hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu sayang….

Duta:
sudah berapa lama
diriku ini
tak bertemu mu

Baizura Kahar:
mungkin ku harap jua
kau merindu ku
sebagaimanaku rindumu

Duta:
Cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia
ku menyinta dirimu

Baizura Kahar:
Hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu sayang….

Duta and Baizura Kahar:
cinta antara kita
tiada penghalangnya
walau akhir usia
ku menyintai dirimu
ku hanya menunggu mu
menyata kau cintaku
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu syg…
ku kan berjanji
menyintamu syg...

Ari Lasso feat. Bunga Citra Lestari - Aku Dan Dirimu

tiba saatnya kita saling bicara
tentang perasaan yang kian menyiksa
tentang rindu yang menggebu
tentang cinta yang tak terungkap

sudah terlalu lama kita berdiam
tenggelam dalam gelisah yang tak teredam
memenuhi mimpi-mimpimu malam kita
 reff:
duhai cintaku, sayangku, lepaskanlah
perasaanmu, rindumu, seluruh cintamu
dan kini hanya ada aku dan dirimu
sesaat di keabadian

jika sang waktu bisa kita hentikan
dan segala mimpi-mimpi jadi kenyataan

www.rizkyonline.com
meleburkan semua batas
antara kau dan aku, kita

These are the songs that he often sing for me. ^^

Actually there are many more songs but this are our favorite.

I really miss him when the songs played. ~.~

(C.J&M)

Important of Hugging

Hugging is healthy. It helps the immune system, cures depression, reduce stress and induces sleep. It’s invigorating, rejuvenating and has no unpleasant side effects.

Hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug. Hugging is all natural. It is organic, naturally sweet, no artificial ingredients, nonpolluting, environmentally friendly and 100 percent wholesome.

Hugging is the ideal gift. Great for any occasion, fun to give and receive, shows you care, comes with its own wrapping and, of course, fully returnable. Hugging is practically perfect. No batteries to wear out, inflation-proof and nonfattening no monthly payments, theft-proof and nontaxable.

Hugging is an underutilized resource with magical powers. When we open our hearts and arms, we encourage other to do the same.

Think of the people in your life. Are there any words you’d like to say? Are there any hugs you want to share? Are you waiting and hoping someone else will come to give you a hugs? Please don’t wait! Initiate!!

They invented hugs to let people know you love them without saying anything. 
( So cute and looks natural )

There's something in a simple hug  That always warms the heart;  It welcomes us back home  And makes it easier to part. A hug's a way to share the joy  And sad times we go through,  Or just a way for friends to say They like you 'cause you're you.  Hugs are meant for anyone  For whom we really care, From your grandma to your neighbour,  Or a cuddly teddy bear.  A hug is an amazing thing -  It's just the perfect way  To show the love we're feeling But can't find the words to say.  It's funny how a little hug Makes everyone feel good;  In every place and language, It's always understood.  And hugs don't need new equipment, Special batteries or parts - Just open up your arms and open up your hearts.

A hug is two hearts wrapped in arms.
(Sweetnyaaa..I miss this moment -.-)


No moving parts, no batteries.
No monthly payments and no fees;
Inflation proof, non-taxable,
In fact, it's quite relaxable;
It can't be be stolen, won't pollute,
One size fits all, do not dilute.
It uses little energy,
But yields results enormously,
Relieves your tension and your stress,
Invigorates your happiness;
Combats depression, makes you beam,
And elevates your self esteem!
Your circulation it corrects
Without unpleasant side effects
It is, I think, the perfect drug:
May I prescribe, my friend,....the hug!
(and of course fully returnable!)


Nicole & Mey

Here, I'm hugging my bestfriend to show how much i ♥ her

It's really touched my heart ♥

I felt deeply touched when my phone rang and this text appears:

"AaMySoul..I think if you said that God sent me to you but to me you are a god send for me and make me change my life to leave the old ways. I am willing to change for you. If you're wondering why I was so dear to you, maybe this is a great answer. I am honest and willing to share my life with you. cross my heart my dear. Honestly, you make me try to improve myself and make me become more matured to think. And for me, you bring all the best out from me. If I forgot  to say thanks to you about all this, now I just wanna say thanks a lot for what you have done and for everything else. You make me unable to describe all about you..but if there is a better word than the word perfect, that's the word that I will dedicate to you. I'm really appreciate all that and that's the important things that I never regret." ♥♥♥   -C.J-

1st august 2010

My 21 years old birthday party

Executive Hotel L/D

My Very Important Parents In My Life

Okai~ The image above  is our 1 family picture. Standing on right is my younger sister who are very close to me. On weekends, she is the person that i'll always bring to hang out, go shopping, buy things, find food and waste time go here go there.haha. Standing on my left is my beloved mummy ♥  She is the queen of our life, for me, she is the greatest mum. She struggled to raised us by herself after the separation with my dad. Thanks Mum~ I ♥ u much. Lastly, standing on left of my mum is my 2nd sister. Nah~this girl la..always gaduh, lawan, tumbuk, wwe, karate and can't join me with my younger sis for activities. I think maybe No Connection la, she can't get what we talk or do.haha. That's why we seldom hang out with her. But sometime when her mood ok, quite nice juga la..become funny2 girl.XD. No matter how, they are the most important person in my life. We had together makes a lot of trials since we were kids. Sometimes, there a time we laughed together, cried together, sad together, smile together, sing and dance together, crazy together AND the most best part is every sunday we'll go to church to celebrate the mass and pray together. ♥ May god bless my family always..

About the way of life ♥

Actually for me, every single life we encounter are not that difficult to face. Just beginning to start it may be very difficult. Every starting makes me headaches and my brain stop working at the time. Damn don't like starting but they made ​​me become more resilient and mature. Hates BUT Loves bcoz they makes my life so wonderful. Thanks God ♥

About Me :::
My full name is Liza Chia Mei Teng. Got a lots of nick name. My parents call 'ting', bestfren call 'mey', colleagues call 'liza', fb frens call 'apple'. Some notty frens call 'big eye girl'. Cehh~ I dun think my eyes look big, but don't know why that name can appears.L0L. My race is chinese(dad) MIX filipin"zamboanggenyo-spanish"(mum). I was born on 1st of august 1989 (Leo Girl) at hospital Lahad Datu, Sabah. OK! Talk a little bit about Lahad Datu town, it is only a small town but it rich in oil palm. Living in this city is damn bored. (I tell you why) Bcoz, LD NO cinema, coffee bean, starbucks, MacD, pizza hut, large shopping mall, giant, servey, sushi king, FOS, nice place for clubing and specially No parking fee.haha. OK! Back to my story. Now, we only 4 girls who stay in this home sweet home. Sometimes feel a bit scary and difficult bcoz no MAN in our house. After my mum n dad divorced, just left us 4 lady in this home. I was the eldest sister among us and i'm working as a teller/clerk in RHB Bank Bhd Lahad datu. I have 2 sisters who are very very Stupiak.haha. My 2nd sister is Melva Chia Mei Fung, she work as a teller/clerk in Public Bank Bhd Lahad Datu.(She is the person who being my kawan/partner for gaduh, tumbuk, lawan, wwe, karate, kungfu and more).XD My younger sister is Lizel Chia Mei Lan, still study in form 4 at SMK St. Dominic.(she is so manja and kena sayang oleh everyone.Biasalah, paling adik kan..).^^ My hobby is ♥ sleep, yeah..i'm feel so happy when i'm laying2 on my bed. I feel so freedom, comfortable and no stress at all. Just close my eyes, relaxing my body, stop thinking and go on dreaming. I LOVE IT!!